1-\u00a0Ki\u015fi akrabas\u0131n\u0131 arada bir ziyaret edip, onlar\u0131n hal ve hat\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 sormal\u0131d\u0131r. Habib-i Ekrem Efendimiz (s.a.v): \u201cEy Ebu Zer zaman zaman ziyaret et ki muhabbet arts\u0131n.\u201d buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r. O halde akrabaya m\u00fcmk\u00fcn ise, haftada bir veya ayda bir yahut y\u0131lda bir kere ziyarete gitmelidir. Ziyaret m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011filse onlara hediye veya mektup yahut sel\u00e2m g\u00f6ndermelidir. Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.): \u201cBir sel\u00e2m g\u00f6ndererek de olsa akrabalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n h\u00e2lini hat\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 sorunuz\u201d buyurdular.<\/p>\n
2- Kendi kabilesi ve yak\u0131n akrabas\u0131yla yard\u0131mla\u015fma ve dayan\u0131\u015fma i\u00e7inde olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u0130htiya\u00e7lar\u0131 i\u00e7in akrabalar\u0131na k\u00fclfet olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar\u0131n \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fclerine \u00fcz\u00fclmeli, ne\u015felerine sevinmelidir. Musibet an\u0131nda taziyeye, sevin\u00e7li an\u0131nda da tebrike gitmeli, bayram g\u00fcnlerinde birbirini ziyaret etmelidirler. Onlar gelince kalk\u0131p g\u00fczel y\u00fczle kar\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131, giderken kap\u0131ya kadar u\u011furlamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
3- Akrabas\u0131n\u0131n ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirmelidir. Zira onlar\u0131 reddetmek, i\u015flerini g\u00f6rmemek s\u0131la-\u0131 rahmi kesmektir. Yak\u0131n akrabayla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeyi iyi ayarlamal\u0131; \u00e7ok gidip usand\u0131rmamal\u0131 veya gitmeyip hasrette b\u0131rakmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Her g\u00fcn g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmekle muhabbetleri azal\u0131p h\u00fcrmetleri kalkarak m\u00fcnasebetlerin kesilmesine sebep olmas\u0131n diye akraba ile kom\u015fu olmak iyi g\u00f6r\u00fclmemi\u015ftir. Hadis-i \u015ferifte: \u201cHak Te\u00e2l\u00e2 s\u0131la-\u0131 rahim yapan\u0131 vasl eder, keseni kat’ eder.\u201d buyurulmu\u015ftur. Yani: Kim yak\u0131n akrabas\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret ve himaye ederek s\u0131la-\u0131 rahim yaparsa All\u00e2h\u00fc Te\u00e2l\u00e2 onun ibadetlerini kabul eder. S\u0131la-\u0131 rahimi terk ederse ona gazap eder ve y\u00fcz \u00e7evirir, demektir.<\/p>\n
4- Babas\u0131ndan sonra amcas\u0131n\u0131, b\u00fcy\u00fck karde\u015fini ve day\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 saymal\u0131, onlar\u0131 itaat ve hizmette babas\u0131 yerinde tutmal\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar da, ona \u015fefkat ve merhamette evlad\u0131 gibi muamele etmelidir.<\/p>\n
5- Annesinden sonra halas\u0131n\u0131 ve teyzesini annesi yerinde tutmal\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar da ona ikram ve \u015fefkat etmelidirler.<\/p>\n
6- Akraban\u0131n eziyetlerine katlan\u0131p ac\u0131 s\u00f6zlerini yutmal\u0131, hastalar\u0131n\u0131 ziyaret etmeli, cenazelerine gitmeli ve vasiyetlerini tutmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc akrabalar birbirinden s\u0131la-i rahim ve ikram beklerler. Aksi halde k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011fa sebep olur. Akrabas\u0131ndan bel\u00e2ya u\u011frayanlara ve onlar\u0131n evlatlar\u0131na vefal\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. (Marifetname)<\/p>\n
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1-\u00a0Ki\u015fi akrabas\u0131n\u0131 arada bir ziyaret edip, onlar\u0131n hal ve hat\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 sormal\u0131d\u0131r. Habib-i Ekrem Efendimiz (s.a.v): \u201cEy Ebu Zer zaman zaman ziyaret et ki muhabbet arts\u0131n.\u201d buyurmu\u015flard\u0131r. O halde akrabaya m\u00fcmk\u00fcn ise, haftada bir veya ayda bir yahut y\u0131lda bir kere ziyarete gitmelidir. Ziyaret m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011filse onlara hediye veya mektup yahut sel\u00e2m g\u00f6ndermelidir. Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.): …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[67],"tags":[2451],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4465"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4465"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4465\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4466,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4465\/revisions\/4466"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4465"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4465"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4465"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}