Anne ve baba \u00e7ocu\u011funun do\u011fumuna sevinmelidir. Nitekim Resul-i Ekrem (s.a.v.) \u201c\u00c7ocuk d\u00fcnyada s\u00fcrur (sevin\u00e7), ahirette nurdur\u201d buyurmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n
K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu olursa, daha \u00e7ok sevinip, onlara h\u00fcrmet etmelidir. Zira evlad\u0131n hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Nitekim Habib-i Ekrem (s.a.v.) \u201c\u0130lk \u00e7ocu\u011funun k\u0131z olmas\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131n bereketindendir. Ben All\u00e2h\u00fc Te\u00e2l\u00e2’dan a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve zahmeti olmayan evlat istedim, bana k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 verdi.\u201d diye buyurmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011fa g\u00fczel bir isim vermelidir.<\/p>\n
Yedinci g\u00fcn\u00fcnde veya daha sonra akika kurban\u0131 olarak o\u011flan i\u00e7in iki, k\u0131z i\u00e7in bir kurban kesmelidir.<\/p>\n
Yedinci g\u00fcnden on ya\u015f\u0131na kadar olan zaman i\u00e7inde o\u011flunu s\u00fcnnet ettirmelidir.<\/p>\n
O\u011flu veya k\u0131z\u0131 alt\u0131 ya\u015f\u0131na gelince, onlara Kur’an’\u0131, dinin farzlar\u0131n\u0131 ve edeplerini (ilmihal bilgilerini) \u00f6\u011fretmelidir.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n e\u011fitimine ihtimam g\u00f6stermeli, ok atmay\u0131, y\u00fczmeyi ve bir sanat\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmelidir. Zira Hadis-i \u015ferifte: \u201cSanat fakirlikten emniyettir.\u201d buyurulmu\u015ftur. Din ilmine ra\u011fbet ederse, ona hidayet olur. K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklara bilhassa yemek pi\u015firmek, diki\u015f dikmek gibi l\u00fczumlu sanatlar\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmelidir.<\/p>\n
S\u00fcsleme, giydirme, yedirme ve hediye vermekte b\u00fct\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 bir tutmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Turfanda meyveyi \u00f6nce k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funa vermelidir. Zira onlar\u0131n y\u00fcrekleri daha yumu\u015fak ve zay\u0131ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131na \u00e7ok merhametli davranmal\u0131d\u0131r. Onlar\u0131 \u015fefkatle \u00f6pmeli, ac\u0131yarak kuca\u011f\u0131na almal\u0131d\u0131r. Onlarla oynay\u0131p g\u00fcler y\u00fczle konu\u015fmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklara hakaret ve beddua etmeyip hay\u0131r dua etmelidir. Zira beddua, fakirlik sebeplerindendir. Bazen kabul oluverir de onlara zarar verir.<\/p>\n
On ya\u015f\u0131na gelen erkek ve k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 ayr\u0131 yataklarda yat\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131, evlenme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na geldiklerinde r\u0131zalar\u0131 ile evlendirmelidir.<\/p>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011funun yapamayaca\u011f\u0131 hizmeti ona emretmemelidir. B\u00f6ylece asi olmalar\u0131na sebep olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Yan\u0131nda olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kendi yedi\u011finden yedirmeli, giydi\u011finden giydirmelidir.<\/p>\n
Hi\u00e7 kimsenin evlad\u0131 hakk\u0131nda k\u00f6t\u00fc d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemeli ki, onun zarar\u0131 kendi \u00e7ocu\u011funa d\u00f6nmesin. (Marifetname)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Anne ve baba \u00e7ocu\u011funun do\u011fumuna sevinmelidir. Nitekim Resul-i Ekrem (s.a.v.) \u201c\u00c7ocuk d\u00fcnyada s\u00fcrur (sevin\u00e7), ahirette nurdur\u201d buyurmu\u015ftur. K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu olursa, daha \u00e7ok sevinip, onlara h\u00fcrmet etmelidir. Zira evlad\u0131n hay\u0131rl\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r. Nitekim Habib-i Ekrem (s.a.v.) \u201c\u0130lk \u00e7ocu\u011funun k\u0131z olmas\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131n bereketindendir. Ben All\u00e2h\u00fc Te\u00e2l\u00e2’dan a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve zahmeti olmayan evlat istedim, bana k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 verdi.\u201d diye buyurmu\u015ftur. \u00c7ocu\u011fa …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":3830,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[76],"tags":[2041,2042],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/koseYazisi.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3832"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3832"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3832\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3833,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3832\/revisions\/3833"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3830"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3832"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3832"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3832"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}