{"id":3617,"date":"2017-03-03T19:27:56","date_gmt":"2017-03-03T16:27:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.hataytr.com\/?p=3617"},"modified":"2017-03-03T19:27:56","modified_gmt":"2017-03-03T16:27:56","slug":"kiminle-arkadaslik-edilir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/kiminle-arkadaslik-edilir\/","title":{"rendered":"K\u0130M\u0130NLE ARKADA\u015eLIK ED\u0130L\u0130R\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Resul-i Ekrem (sallall\u00e2h\u00fc aleyhi ve sellem) buyurdular: \u201cSiz, mallar\u0131n\u0131zla herkesi memnun edemezsiniz, \u00f6yle ise onlar\u0131 g\u00fcler y\u00fcz ve g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2k ile memnun etme\u011fe \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cSizden biriniz, bir karde\u015fini sevdi\u011fi zaman, bunu ona bildirsin.\u201d (Tirmizi)<\/p>\n

\u201cKim, din karde\u015finin ay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rterse, All\u00e2h\u00fc Te\u00e2l\u00e2 d\u00fcnya ve ahirette onun kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rter.\u201d (\u0130bn-i Mace) Res\u00fblull\u00e2h Efendimiz (s.a.v.), ashab\u0131ndan biriyle bir ormana girdi ve iki misvak kesti. Biri e\u011frice, di\u011feri d\u00fczg\u00fcn idi. D\u00fczg\u00fcn olan\u0131 ashab\u0131na verdi. O sah\u00e2b\u00ee:<\/p>\n

\u201cYa Resulallah! Vallahi sen do\u011frusuna benden daha lay\u0131ks\u0131n\u201d deyince, buyurdular ki:<\/p>\n

\u201cG\u00fcnd\u00fcz\u00fcn pek az bir vaktinde de olsa bir kimse ile arkada\u015fl\u0131k eden kimseye, arkada\u015fl\u0131k hakk\u0131na riayet edip etmedi\u011fi sorulur.\u201d<\/p>\n

Bayezid-i Bestami’ye (k.s.):<\/p>\n

\u201cKim ile arkada\u015fl\u0131k edilir?\u201d diye sordular, buyurdu ki: \u201cSenin, All\u00e2h\u00fc Te\u00e2l\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n bildi\u011fi kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 bilen, sonra da All\u00e2h\u00fc Te\u00e2l\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n \u00f6rtt\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi o ay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 gizleyen kimse ile arkada\u015fl\u0131k edilir.\u201d<\/p>\n

Z\u00fcnnun-\u0131 M\u0131sri (k.s.) dedi ki:<\/p>\n

\u201cSeni masum (g\u00fcnahs\u0131z, hatas\u0131z) g\u00f6rmek isteyenin arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hay\u0131r yoktur. K\u0131zd\u0131\u011f\u0131 vakit s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 if\u015fa eden, ne fena kimsedir. Hakiki dost, senden ho\u015fnutken s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 saklad\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi sana k\u0131zd\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman da s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 saklayand\u0131r.\u201d<\/p>\n

Hikmet ehli bir zat dedi ki:<\/p>\n

\u201cBir kimse \u00f6fkelendi\u011fi veya senden ho\u015fnut oldu\u011fu veya bir \u015feye a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 h\u0131rsland\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman sana farkl\u0131 davran\u0131yorsa onunla arkada\u015fl\u0131k etme. Hakiki dost her halinde sana kar\u015f\u0131 arkada\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n icab\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirendir.\u201d<\/p>\n

(\u0130hyau Ulumiddin)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Resul-i Ekrem (sallall\u00e2h\u00fc aleyhi ve sellem) buyurdular: \u201cSiz, mallar\u0131n\u0131zla herkesi memnun edemezsiniz, \u00f6yle ise onlar\u0131 g\u00fcler y\u00fcz ve g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2k ile memnun etme\u011fe \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.\u201d \u201cSizden biriniz, bir karde\u015fini sevdi\u011fi zaman, bunu ona bildirsin.\u201d (Tirmizi) \u201cKim, din karde\u015finin ay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rterse, All\u00e2h\u00fc Te\u00e2l\u00e2 d\u00fcnya ve ahirette onun kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rter.\u201d (\u0130bn-i Mace) Res\u00fblull\u00e2h Efendimiz (s.a.v.), ashab\u0131ndan biriyle bir …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":3618,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[76],"tags":[1964,1966,1965],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/03\/aylinkircali_resimmt9.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3617"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3617"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3617\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3619,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3617\/revisions\/3619"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3618"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3617"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3617"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3617"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}