{"id":1863,"date":"2016-05-07T15:56:53","date_gmt":"2016-05-07T12:56:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wp.hataytr.com\/?p=1863"},"modified":"2016-05-07T15:56:53","modified_gmt":"2016-05-07T12:56:53","slug":"arkadaslik-adabi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/arkadaslik-adabi\/","title":{"rendered":"ARKADA\u015eLIK ADABI"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00f6zl\u00fckte “arkada\u015f” ne demek?<\/p>\n

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  1. Bir i\u015fte birlikte bulunanlardan her biri, yolda\u015f, tan\u0131\u015f, tan\u0131d\u0131k, dost, ahbap, refik, yaren.
    \n2.<\/strong> Birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi ve anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6steren kimselerden her biri<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Arkada\u015fl\u0131k hukukunun bir\u00e7ok adab\u0131 vard\u0131r. Nitekim Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.): \u201c\u0130ki dost, iki el gibidir, birbirlerini y\u0131kar (pak ederler).\u201d buyurmu\u015ftur. Bir g\u00fcn Res\u00fblullah Efendimiz (s.a.v.) sahabeleriyle birlikte bir a\u011fa\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa girer ve erak a\u011fac\u0131ndan biri e\u011fri di\u011feri d\u00fcz iki misvak keser. E\u011frisini kendisine b\u0131rak\u0131r, d\u00fczg\u00fcn olan\u0131 arkada\u015f\u0131na verir. O sahab\u00ee: \u201cBu d\u00fcz misvak size yak\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u201d deyince, Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.):<\/p>\n

    \u201cE\u011fer misvaklar\u0131 sen bulup kesmi\u015f olsayd\u0131n d\u00fczg\u00fcn olan\u0131n\u0131 bana vermen fazilet, \u00fcst\u00fcnl\u00fck say\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc arkada\u015fl\u0131k eden iki ki\u015fiden arkada\u015f\u0131na en \u015fefkatli olan Allah kat\u0131nda en makbul olur.\u201d buyururlar.<\/p>\n

    Arkada\u015flara kar\u015f\u0131 dikkat edilecek hususlar:<\/p>\n

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    • \u0130htiya\u00e7 anlar\u0131nda yard\u0131m\u0131na ko\u015fmal\u0131,<\/li>\n
    • Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 gizlemeli,<\/li>\n
    • Ay\u0131plar\u0131n\u0131 ve kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6rtmeli,<\/li>\n
    • Ho\u015funa giden ad\u0131yla \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmal\u0131,<\/li>\n
    • Gerekti\u011fi takdirde iyilik ve yumu\u015fakl\u0131k ile nasihat etmeli,<\/li>\n
    • Arkada\u015f\u0131 hakk\u0131nda g\u0131ybet edildi\u011finde hakk\u0131n\u0131 korumal\u0131,<\/li>\n
    • Kusurlar\u0131n\u0131 affetmeli,<\/li>\n
    • Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ve \u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcnde her namazdan sonra ona du\u00e2 etmeli,<\/li>\n
    • Sevin\u00e7 ve kederlerinde ortak olmal\u0131,<\/li>\n
    • Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fcne kar\u015f\u0131 nas\u0131l davran\u0131yorsa g\u0131yab\u0131nda; arkas\u0131nda da \u00f6yle olmal\u0131,<\/li>\n
    • Ayakta kar\u015f\u0131lamal\u0131, g\u00fcler y\u00fczle sel\u00e2m\u0131n\u0131 almal\u0131, ona yer vermeli,<\/li>\n
    • Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n halini sormal\u0131,<\/li>\n
    • Kalkt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda onu kap\u0131ya kadar yolcu etmelidir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      Hulasa ki\u015fi kendisine yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fi muameleyi arkada\u015f\u0131na yapmal\u0131 ki, sadakatini g\u00f6stersin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc kendine istedi\u011fini, dostuna istemeyenin dostlu\u011funda hay\u0131r yoktur.<\/p>\n

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      • Arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n vefat\u0131ndan sonra ailesiyle, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla ve sevdi\u011fi akrabalar\u0131yla alakay\u0131 kesmeyip g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmeli, vefal\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

        S\u00f6zl\u00fckte “arkada\u015f” ne demek? Bir i\u015fte birlikte bulunanlardan her biri, yolda\u015f, tan\u0131\u015f, tan\u0131d\u0131k, dost, ahbap, refik, yaren. 2. Birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 sevgi ve anlay\u0131\u015f g\u00f6steren kimselerden her biri Arkada\u015fl\u0131k hukukunun bir\u00e7ok adab\u0131 vard\u0131r. Nitekim Peygamber Efendimiz (s.a.v.): \u201c\u0130ki dost, iki el gibidir, birbirlerini y\u0131kar (pak ederler).\u201d buyurmu\u015ftur. Bir g\u00fcn Res\u00fblullah Efendimiz (s.a.v.) sahabeleriyle birlikte bir a\u011fa\u00e7l\u0131\u011fa …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[77],"tags":[868],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1863"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1863"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1863\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1864,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1863\/revisions\/1864"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1863"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1863"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1863"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}