{"id":1555,"date":"2016-05-06T13:57:47","date_gmt":"2016-05-06T10:57:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wp.hataytr.com\/?p=1555"},"modified":"2016-05-06T13:57:47","modified_gmt":"2016-05-06T10:57:47","slug":"gelinler-ve-kayinvalideler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/gelinler-ve-kayinvalideler\/","title":{"rendered":"GEL\u0130NLER VE KAYINVAL\u0130DELER"},"content":{"rendered":"

Her gelin bir evin ak y\u00fcz\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Anne ve babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n m\u00fcr\u00fcvvetini g\u00f6rmek \u00fczere ya\u015farlar.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuk be\u015fikte iken ebeveynler \u00e7eyiz haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n

G\u00fczel hayaller kurarlar.<\/p>\n

Alt\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131 torunlar, g\u00f6n\u00fcl bah\u00e7elerinde ko\u015farlar.<\/p>\n

Ama hayaller hep kara k\u0131\u015fa u\u011frar.<\/p>\n

Baharlar hep tufan ve boranla ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n

Gelin, kay\u0131nvalidenin rakibi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

Ama hep bu rekabet k\u00f6t\u00fc \u00f6rneklerle dolu olur.<\/p>\n

Gelin bilmeli ki yeni bir ev, yeni bir cand\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Damat da, iki arada bir derede ara bulucu olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Kay\u0131npeder, dua edicidir.<\/p>\n

Hep iyi olsun istemektedir.<\/p>\n

Kay\u0131npederin \u00f6mr\u00fc dengeleri sa\u011flamakla ge\u00e7er.<\/p>\n

Gelin, kay\u0131nvalidenin her s\u00f6yledi\u011fi s\u00f6z\u00fc ok gibi g\u00f6rmemeli\u2026<\/p>\n

Onlar\u0131n da ana yar\u0131s\u0131 oldu\u011fu bilinmelidir.<\/p>\n

Gelinlerimiz, yeni yuvalar\u0131nda huzuru tesis etmelidir.<\/p>\n

Bir zaman kendilerinin de kay\u0131nvalide olacaklar\u0131n\u0131 unutmamal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc her problemi \u00e7\u00f6zmenin ilk basama\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu d\u00fcnya etme bulma d\u00fcnyas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Ne yaparsan onu g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

Yar\u0131n istemedi\u011fin bir sahne ya\u015famak istemiyorsan, bug\u00fcn yanl\u0131\u015f yapmamal\u0131s\u0131n.<\/p>\n

Gelinlerimiz bizlere emanettir.<\/p>\n

Hatalar\u0131, kay\u0131nvalide taraf\u0131ndan tolere edilmelidir.<\/p>\n

Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ku\u015fak ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerinde nesillerle m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n

Aile bireyleri birbirlerinin tamamlay\u0131c\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Herkes bir k\u00f6\u015feden \u00e7ekerse sistem \u00e7\u00f6ker.<\/p>\n

Kay\u0131nvalide gelin bir b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn iki yar\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Aralar\u0131na kurtlar\u0131n girmesine m\u00fcsaade edilmemelidir.<\/p>\n

Mutlu torunlar, mutlu aile ortamlar\u0131nda yeti\u015fir.<\/p>\n

Gelinlerimiz bizlere emanet edilmi\u015f alt\u0131n k\u0131zlard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Onlara hak etti\u011fi de\u011ferleri verirsek onlarda bizlere o de\u011feri verir.<\/p>\n

Tatl\u0131 dil y\u0131lan\u0131 deli\u011finden \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken, beni biz yapmakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Hay\u0131rl\u0131 ve uzun bir yola \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f ki\u015filer birbirlerine destek olmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/p>\n

Gelinler, g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir toplumun gelece\u011finin teminat\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Kay\u0131nvalidesi huzurlu bir toplumda ke\u015fmeke\u015flik olmaz, \u00f6m\u00fcr uzar.<\/p>\n

Gelin ve kay\u0131nvalide muhabbeti, toplumun ince s\u0131z\u0131s\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Bu s\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcl\u00fcrse toplum da mutlu olur.<\/p>\n

Toplumun en g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yap\u0131s\u0131 ailedir.<\/p>\n

Ailenin mayas\u0131 da analard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Analar\u0131 hayat ve kay\u0131nvalide yormamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

Kay\u0131nvalide duas\u0131 alan\u0131n iki d\u00fcnyada i\u015fleri rast gider.<\/p>\n

G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ailenin g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bireylerini mutluluk birle\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Her gelin bir evin ak y\u00fcz\u00fcd\u00fcr. Anne ve babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n m\u00fcr\u00fcvvetini g\u00f6rmek \u00fczere ya\u015farlar. \u00c7ocuk be\u015fikte iken ebeveynler \u00e7eyiz haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131na ba\u015flar. G\u00fczel hayaller kurarlar. Alt\u0131n ba\u015fl\u0131 torunlar, g\u00f6n\u00fcl bah\u00e7elerinde ko\u015farlar. Ama hayaller hep kara k\u0131\u015fa u\u011frar. Baharlar hep tufan ve boranla ge\u00e7er. Gelin, kay\u0131nvalidenin rakibi de\u011fildir. Ama hep bu rekabet k\u00f6t\u00fc \u00f6rneklerle dolu olur. Gelin …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_is_tweetstorm":false,"jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false}}},"categories":[76],"tags":[658,657],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1555"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1555"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1555\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1556,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1555\/revisions\/1556"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1555"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1555"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hatayinnabzi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1555"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}